Learning sex (part 1)

GenX coming of age reflections: dorm sex

Claudette
If not now, when?
Published in
6 min readSep 15, 2021

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The first time I realized that adequate, slow-building arousal was a key ingredient for fulfilling sex was during my University years.

I often wondered what an inexperienced, introverted teenage girl wanted from a boy. Romance, I decided, was the answer. Like they showed on TV.

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